You might be surprised to hear that having successful relationships has nothing to do with finding the right partner or colleague but everything with psychology and how our brain functions. Having a successful relationship is a project, not something that people can acquire by being especially skilled in spotting the best suitable partner. Successful relationships are like a garden: You have to attend to it – regularly – to make sure it stays in shape.
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Wouldn't it be great if human beings came to this world with well functioning, inbuilt relationship software? Indeed, we do come with an inbuilt capability to form deep, lasting, successful relationships. How then does it happen that so many relationships run into problems?